I had my tubes tied after the birth of my second child. having a boy and a girl I figured I was Good to go. Less than a year after my daughters birth, my son who was three at the time was killed by a falling dresser. Now 6 yrs later I am wanting more than anything to try to have just one more child. I am trying to find a way to afford having the reversal. My fiance and I really want a child together. any ideas????